[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.filezilla.cz\/co-zhorsuje-konflikty\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.filezilla.cz\/co-zhorsuje-konflikty\/","headline":"Co zhor\u0161uje konflikty?","name":"Co zhor\u0161uje konflikty?","description":"Spr\u00e1vn\u011b se h\u00e1dat je doslova v\u011bda. Po\u0159\u00e1daj\u00ed se na to \u0161kolen\u00ed i p\u00ed\u0161\u00ed knihy. Argumentovat se m\u00e1 v\u011bcn\u011b, asertivn\u011b a logicky. V\u00edme, \u017ee to lze n\u011bkdy t\u011b\u017eko, kdy\u017e v\u00e1s druh\u00e1 strana rozzu\u0159\u00ed do ruda, ale zkuste jednoduch\u00fd trik: n\u00e1dech, v\u00fddech, zav\u0159\u00edt o\u010di a pak se vr\u00e1tit k j\u00e1dru probl\u00e9mu. Nyn\u00ed…","datePublished":"2023-05-23","dateModified":"2023-05-23","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.filezilla.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.filezilla.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/c0c0e488d5f88ebdb5e32a558e21f6df03f38644814b5677bcd67e16813bee55?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/c0c0e488d5f88ebdb5e32a558e21f6df03f38644814b5677bcd67e16813bee55?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"filezilla.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.filezilla.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/woman-524141_640_10_9.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.filezilla.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/woman-524141_640_10_9.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.filezilla.cz\/co-zhorsuje-konflikty\/","about":["Lifestyle"],"wordCount":437,"articleBody":"Spr\u00e1vn\u011b se h\u00e1dat je doslova v\u011bda. Po\u0159\u00e1daj\u00ed se na to \u0161kolen\u00ed i p\u00ed\u0161\u00ed knihy. Argumentovat se m\u00e1 v\u011bcn\u011b, asertivn\u011b a logicky. V\u00edme, \u017ee to lze n\u011bkdy t\u011b\u017eko, kdy\u017e v\u00e1s druh\u00e1 strana rozzu\u0159\u00ed do ruda, ale zkuste jednoduch\u00fd trik: n\u00e1dech, v\u00fddech, zav\u0159\u00edt o\u010di a pak se vr\u00e1tit k j\u00e1dru probl\u00e9mu.Nyn\u00ed se spole\u010dn\u011b pod\u00edv\u00e1me na to, co konflikty zhor\u0161uje. A\u017e p\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011b k n\u011bjak\u00e9 h\u00e1dce dojde, vzpome\u0148te si na to.\u00a01) k\u0159ik a zvy\u0161ov\u00e1n\u00ed hlasuB\u011bhem h\u00e1dky zkuste nezvy\u0161ovat hlas. Zv\u00fd\u0161en\u00fdm hlasem vyjad\u0159ujete moc a p\u0159evahu a o to v konstruktivn\u00edm dialogu p\u0159eci nejde. Chcete se dobrat n\u011bjak\u00e9ho \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed a ne druh\u00e9ho uk\u0159i\u010det a p\u0159ev\u00e1lcovat zv\u00fd\u0161en\u00fdm hlasem.2) provokativn\u00ed ml\u010den\u00edOstentativn\u00ed ml\u010den\u00ed je\u0161t\u011b nikdy nic nevy\u0159e\u0161ilo, ba naopak. Ve vzduchu vis\u00ed dusno, kter\u00e9 je pot\u0159eba \u0159e\u0161it. Ide\u00e1ln\u011b v\u0161e si v klidu vy\u0159\u00edkat.3) h\u00e1zen\u00ed \u0161p\u00edny z minulostiV\u017edy \u0159e\u0161te\u00a0jen jeden konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed a aktu\u00e1ln\u00ed konflikt. Vytahov\u00e1n\u00ed minulosti se nehod\u00ed, je to jako kudla do zad nebo nel\u00edtostn\u00e1 podp\u00e1sovka.\u00a04) v\u011bta „u\u017e se uklidni“Oba jste b\u011bhem h\u00e1dky v ur\u010dit\u00e9 m\u00ed\u0159e stresu a v\u011bty typu „uklidni se“ druh\u00e9ho je\u0161t\u011b v\u00edce na\u0161tve. Touto v\u011btou tedy dos\u00e1hnete sp\u00ed\u0161e opa\u010dn\u00e9ho efektu. A to opravdu nepot\u0159ebujete. Ne\u0159\u00edkejte druh\u00e9mu, jak se m\u00e1 c\u00edtit. Sp\u00ed\u0161e se zam\u011b\u0159te na sebe a sv\u00e9 pocity: „uklidn\u00edm se a pak ti pov\u00edm, co m\u011b tolik na\u0161tvalo“.5) nad\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00edTak toto u\u017e je opravdu za hranou a hod\u00ed se leda tak pro pubert\u00e1ln\u00ed v\u00fdrostky. Ne pro dosp\u011bl\u00e9, rozumn\u00e9 osoby. B\u011bhem konfliktu si nenad\u00e1vejte. V\u017edy si k sob\u011b zachovejte \u00factu a respekt i kdy\u017e \u0159e\u0161\u00edte ty nejn\u00e1ro\u010dn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed t\u00e9mata.6) \u00fatok na citliv\u00e1 m\u00edstaJe mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee vy i druh\u00e1 strana zn\u00e1te navz\u00e1jem ta nejslab\u0161\u00ed a nejcitliv\u011bj\u0161\u00ed m\u00edsta. A pr\u00e1v\u011b z toho d\u016fvodu na n\u011b nemi\u0159te.7) omluva, kter\u00e1 nen\u00ed m\u00edn\u011bna up\u0159\u00edmn\u011bVyvarujte se u\u0161t\u011bpa\u010dn\u00e9ho „promi\u0148“. Omluvu byste m\u011bli myslet v\u017edy up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b. Pokud to tak nec\u00edt\u00edte, rad\u011bji to ne\u0159\u00edkejte. Druh\u00e1 strana by to nejsp\u00ed\u0161 i poznala a byli byste op\u011bt na za\u010d\u00e1tku konfliktu.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Co zhor\u0161uje konflikty?","item":"https:\/\/www.filezilla.cz\/co-zhorsuje-konflikty\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]